Tom Shefchunas

Why Focus on Middle School Ministry?

by on in Strategy.
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I spent the first 10 years of my professional life as a teacher, coach, and eventually a principal in the educational system.  Though I loved the classroom and my kids, I grew more and more frustrated with the system.  In response, I tried to change it from the inside out.  Along the way, I went to graduate school to get my administrative degree and spent a lot of time not only working in the system, but stepping back and looking at it from an academic and scientific perspective. I got more frustrated—not with the teachers—but with the system they had to work in.

Eventually, I remember sitting at my desk with my head in my hands and writing these words.

“If anyone were REALLY interested in fixing the educational system, they would blow the whole thing up and start again with Middle School.”

Think about it. If you start from the middle you can change things from the inside out.

Think about how backwards the whole thing is.

Middle School is the most unstable and foundational time in a kid’s life developmentally.
Middle School is the most unstable and foundational time in a kid’s life educationally.
Middle School is the most unstable and foundational time in a kid’s life socially.

In any other business, you would put the best of the best on that.

But what does the education system do?

We put the rookies there. We put anyone with a warm body. Then, they work their way to the AP classes where everybody behaves and works hard! What?

Now don’t get me wrong. There are some amazing people who feel like Middle School is the place to be. But you have to admit, there aren’t a lot of people dying to get in.

It’s a good thing the church doesn’t think like this…. Oh Wait!

As I look around, it is clear that not only have we minimized the importance of these unstable (yet foundational) years, many of us have neglected the need altogether.

Most churches I talk to have eliminated or never considered a Middle School Ministry. They mix them in with kids that are too young, or students that are too old.

If they do have a Middle School Ministry, it is the least funded and least supported ministry at the church.

Where does the new guy/gal go?
What happens when he/she develops?
What does their environment look like?

Let’s just stop and think about it.

If this is the most unstable and foundational time in a child’s life developmentally, educationally, and socially, what do you think that means to a Middle School student spiritually?

Let’s face it.

Middle School is the last preventative ministry.
Middle School is the last time the cement is still wet.
Middle School students needs the best of the best to navigate this unstable and foundational time.

It’s time we did something.

And here is how I feel….

If anybody were REALLY serious about fixing a problem in the church (just chose one that the church is facing…maybe the exodus of our 18-24 year olds) they would start with Middle School.

I, for one, am ready.  Are you?

Post originally published by XP3 Students.

  • Great post! I don’t know if it’s just me, but it seems like more and more ym’ers these days, when faced with a choice, are choosing Middle School Ministry for this very reason. When I was younger I wanted to do High School ministry (because I wanted to be cool). The older I got I wanted to MS ministry (because I wanted to be effective)…and I realized no matter how hard I tried, I’d never be cool 🙂

  • Now when my leaders or parents ask this question I can send them this. Same thing in say, but always hearing it from that “other voice” is the way to go.

  • Ashley Lewis

    What would be the “system” you would implement in the church in middle school ministry? How would you make the ministry fully effective? Are you doing this in your church, if so I would love to know more 🙂

  • You spoken the script written on my heart. Well said, and great article Tom.

  • You have expressed everything I’ve told hundreds of people who ask me how and why I do what I do. Beautifully written.

  • George Bewley

    Awesome thoughts!

  • Nikomas Perez

    Great post! I don’t know if it’s just me, but it seems like more and more ym’ers these days, when faced with a choice, are choosing Middle School Ministry for this very reason. When I was younger I wanted to do High School ministry (because I wanted to be cool). The older I got I wanted to MS ministry (because I wanted to be effective)…and I realized no matter how hard I tried, I’d never be cool

  • Justin Herman

    Now when my leaders or parents ask this question I can send them this. Same thing in say, but always hearing it from that “other voice” is the way to go.

  • Ashley Lewis

    What would be the “system” you would implement in the church in middle school ministry? How would you make the ministry fully effective? Are you doing this in your church, if so I would love to know more

  • midschoolmin

    You spoken the script written on my heart. Well said, and great article Tom.

  • Eddie Witkowski

    You have expressed everything I’ve told hundreds of people who ask me how and why I do what I do. Beautifully written.